Such my parents were followers of atheists who had never opened a Bible, and it was in my teens when I found faith.
As a teenager, like many others, believed that you local women sex is something that occurs in all relationships – and that is almost a prerequisite for women who do not want men to reject them. Then, when I first started going to church regularly, also I met my husband now. God, my boyfriend and then completely changed my opinion about sex before marriage.
My partner is the most decent, gentle and patient, and above all, man I ever met, but when I was very attracted to him when we were dating: did not know at that time. When we had sex, but I can tell it was physically “incredible”, but it seemed very badly. I understand that this is not something I could do. They have already been rejected prepared; I told him that I felt more comfortable with physical contact. If I had to choose my boyfriend, who went out and God is not going to win the competition.
To my surprise and pleasure, my friend had seen the same exact feelings. Not having a physical relationship has not broken our relationship. Instead, he gave us the opportunity to know more deeply of what could and for exploring our faith and values. He married after a year of dating and abstinence and now they have two beautiful children together. Needless to say, after marriage, sexual intercourse and trying to become pregnant should not invoke negative feelings!
Short story the story of our marriage, and the faith has joined us, not because I want to show previous crimes for all to read, or I judge to those who have made different choices. Lessons, my husband and I have taken our experience are:
The problem of finding sex personals before marriage may be a test of his faith in God and proof of their relationship. Abstinence before marriage furthered the connection and the aid, knowing that we made the choice of a spouse when we walk in the corridors.
Listening to the voice tells you that it must change its direction can not to this day, but it will help you find the right partner. Live according to God’s values? It is not a burden, but rather something very liberating. As my father once, said “serve the Lord may appear bitter, but sweet.” After Satan is sweet for many, but it is “bitter”